Learning to cope

I've just survived a week away with hubby, kids and mum in law. I say survived because hubby and mum in law would both be on the wines/beers in the afternoons/evenings. Not getting drunk on the wines/beesr but a nice relaxing wine with meals or a red wine on front of the fire. I did have the "why can't I just have one wine?", "would it be so bad just to have one?" feelings but I know it's never that simple so I just put those thoughts out of my head and had a fizzy water in a wine glass or a cup of tea instead. Funny how a soft drink in a wine glass feels so much more grown up and sophisticated than in a tumbler. Stem withdrawal I've heard it called. I certainly don't want to go through stem withdrawal, or bubbles withdrawal, so fizzy water in a wine glass is good with me. :-)